Are you tired of constantly firefighting crises in leadership and longing for a work-life balance that allows you to truly thrive?
In this episode of Beyond the Rut, I sit down with leadership coach and U.S. Marine Corps veteran Ben Killoy to discuss how leaders can transform their teams and build thriving, resilient cultures that achieve lasting success. If you’re ready to move from reactive management to proactive servant leadership, you won’t want to miss this conversation.
This episode includes the following highlights:
- [00:00:45] Jerry introduces Ben Killoy and sets the theme of the episode.
- [00:02:44] Ben shares his journey from firefighting in corporate leadership to becoming a transformational coach.
- [00:04:40] The revelation: most crises are caused by the leaders themselves.
- [00:05:55] Why success leaves clues and how to find them.
- [00:07:14] The importance of addressing the “fires” within ourselves.
- [00:11:03] How boundaries and self-care prevent leader burnout.
- [00:13:23] The three critical questions every leader must answer for team clarity.
- [00:16:46] How organizational health trumps even the best strategies.
- [00:21:37] Ben discusses empowerment and the responsibility lens in leadership.
- [00:32:09] Ben’s new ebook and how it can help leaders thrive.
Table of Contents
What is the Problem with Managing Only the Crises Like a Firefighter?
Firefighting crises in leadership is a draining, unsustainable cycle. Ben explains that when leaders constantly react to problems, they often miss the root cause of those issues. This approach leads to burnout, low team morale, and a lack of long-term vision. Many leaders fail to realize that the biggest arsonist in their team might be… themselves. By projecting stress and micromanaging, they unintentionally set the stage for crises rather than preventing them.
What is a Better, Transformative Way to Lead Our Teams?
The alternative? Transformational leadership that focuses on proactive strategies, empowerment, and fostering a positive organizational culture. Ben emphasizes that clarity is key: every team member should understand the organization’s vision, why it matters, and their role in achieving it. Drawing from the Marine Corps and corporate leadership experiences, he provides examples of how servant leadership and setting boundaries can reduce stress and boost productivity. Empowerment is about giving your team the tools and trust they need to succeed without your constant oversight.
What Do We Have to Gain by Becoming Servant Leaders?
The benefits of adopting a servant leadership model are immense. Leaders who invest in their teams and prioritize organizational health see more engaged, committed employees who take ownership of their roles. Companies like Southwest Airlines and QuickTrip thrive because of a strong, people-first culture. Ben shares that by making this shift, leaders can achieve a fulfilling work-life balance, returning home with energy for their families, ready to invest in personal relationships and live a life truly worth living.
If you’re ready to break free from the exhausting cycle of crisis management and embrace a leadership style that promotes thriving, both at work and home, this episode is your starting point. Be sure to check out Ben Killoy’s new ebook and access more resources at beyondtherut.com/424.
Resources:
- Connect with Ben Killoy to find your True North, https://benkilloy.com/
Past episodes you may like from Beyond the Rut related to this episode.
7 Pillars of Servant Leadership: How to Lead with Empowerment, Compassion and Integrity
Prioritizing Well-Being and Excellence: A Leadership Legacy with Oakland McCulloch – BtR 399
JERRY’S SHORT: Building Trust by Unleashing the Power of Your Personal Leadership Credo
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